Addled Head Trauma

amazinglyenoughidontgiveafuck: My brain sounds about right

Thu, 09 May 2013 11:50:46 -0400

My brain

sounds about right

fortheloveofasub: “Nothing delights my senses like the three...

Thu, 18 Apr 2013 13:20:26 -0400

“Nothing delights my senses like the three S’s; silk, skin and submission.”

~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2013

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it is lovely and fun

as is all treasure of worth

Thu, 18 Apr 2013 13:19:44 -0400

as is all treasure of worth

Reblog if you're horny 24/7.

Wed, 03 Apr 2013 21:19:04 -0400

annie-douglas-at-40:

Well, not 24/7 - I’m assuming when I sleep, I might not be horny… :)

start a mosh pit at my funeral or we aren’t real friends Break a face, or a cane, or a walker.

Fri, 29 Mar 2013 19:32:53 -0400

start a mosh pit at my funeral or we aren’t real friends

Break a face, or a cane, or a walker.

Where one would see sarrow I see beauty

Mon, 25 Mar 2013 20:42:19 -0400

Where one would see sarrow I see beauty

Truth

Sat, 09 Mar 2013 19:19:58 -0500

Truth

gaunted: One of my favourite shots. #TheDarkKnight #Batman...

Sat, 09 Mar 2013 11:39:45 -0500

gaunted:

One of my favourite shots. #TheDarkKnight #Batman #Joker #Heath Ledger #Jack Nicholson - More Batman related pics on my DA gaunted.deviantart.com

#HotToys

Awsomeness

Memories

Fri, 08 Mar 2013 19:08:24 -0500

Memories

goreanmaster: Tumblrs to follow: anal cum with a smile erotic...

Fri, 08 Mar 2013 16:18:40 -0500

goreanmaster:

Tumblrs to follow:

anal

cum with a smile

erotic lesbians

girls doing yoga

girls getting clean

orgy

stunning beauties

moments from a good life.

the place of a good girl

Fri, 08 Mar 2013 14:53:28 -0500

the place of a good girl

her-master: Legs… When the primal self is triggerd, there is...

Thu, 07 Mar 2013 21:11:59 -0500

her-master:

Legs…

When the primal self is triggerd, there is always a reason. This is one is among the more entertaining ones.

Intoxicating

Thu, 07 Mar 2013 06:58:25 -0500

Intoxicating

errecii: Toxic nature http://be.net/Erreci so many ideas...

Tue, 05 Mar 2013 16:55:10 -0500

errecii:

Toxic nature

http://be.net/Erreci

so many ideas sparked from this

fortheloveofasub: always-a-slave: The Olive Tree A confused...

Tue, 26 Feb 2013 17:36:40 -0500

fortheloveofasub:

always-a-slave:

The Olive Tree

A confused sub came before a wise Master who adored her. She felt that to submit to him would mean she would open her heart to unbearable pain should he ever leave her. She hungered for him and needed him, but was ready to walk away in panic.

The gentle Master knelt her before him and started a tale of love and devotion. As she looked up at him his arms began to widen and open like a large tree stretches its branches to the sky. At that moment the Master appeared rooted to the floor and his impressive size towered above her like a giant tree. Then he began to speak…

I’m here for you… now and always no matter how far time and space takes us… Whether you walk away from me today or you stay and serve me I will not turn from you. I am as patient as time itself; I will take not from you unless you give freely and completely of yourself, but I give onto you regardless— for my love is unconditional…

Like the olive tree that can both feed you and shade you, I am there seemingly eternal to your short life on this earth. If you need my fruit to feed your hunger I will give you all the fruit you need. If your skin grows dry and loses its luster, the oil from my fruit will restore it and make it glisten. When you need comfort my leaves will gently caress your face with the slightest breeze. When you need discipline my branches will correct you when the wind blows strong. If you just need my shade to protect you from the sun, my branches will shade and protect you. If you need warmth at night my fallen branches will fuel the fire to keep you warm and safe. If you need a refreshing breeze my leaves will fan you and cool you. You are my gardener.

When you submit to me, you tend that which keeps me vibrant and full of life. When you kneel under me and till the soil, you give breath to my roots. When you water me, my sap flows strong through me raising my limping Branches. When you soil yourself collecting fertilizer with your bare hands, you strengthen and humble me with your devotion.

Although my life will go on, life would not be the same without you. Your dedication and unconditional care for me keeps me vibrant and nurtures my very core. The sustenance and protection I give you seems little reward for your servitude. Still the gardener serves the tree from her heart and the tree gives to her heart all that he can!

I am planted firmly on the ground and cannot follow you if you walk away from me…. But be assured I will survive. One hundred years later and two of your lifetimes; I will still be there, waiting for you in the same spot to offer you all that I do now.

Stay with me and be my gardener. You cannot get lost in me for we are complementary to each other. I am your devotion, and you give meaning to my existence. Apart we live life and survive; together we bloom eternally!

… As the Master finished his last words the sub cried herself to sleep at his feet. That night, he stood planted there like the Olive tree offering her his unconditional love and protection as she slept. As she would tend to him with her devotion the next day… and everyday thereafter!

lovely tale. it makes me think of someone dear to me, they know who they are.

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Mon, 25 Feb 2013 07:43:51 -0500

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Mon, 18 Feb 2013 20:18:53 -0500

her-master: Ok I received two more mssgs this afternoon from...

Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:13:13 -0500

her-master:

Ok I received two more mssgs this afternoon from Doms or aspiring Doms at various stages in their relationships. I’m happy to talk to people, but I certainly don’t want to set myself up as an expert. There’s so much I don’t know and my experience has been limited to a handful of women over the years… so take any information I give you with a grain of salt. I do see some common threads among the questions I received and they provoked this post. I guess I should title this post:

A note to Doms: the Women We Love.

If you are truly going to own and dominate a woman, you must understand her. Everyone, of course, is unique, but I’ve seen some of the same things over and over between the submissive women I have known:

They are motivated by a deep desire to please. When you ask a “vanilla” woman what to do, she will sometimes reply “whatever you want”, which is simply annoying. However, you must understand that phrase for what it is from a submissive. She wants more than anything to please you. Whatever plans or ideas she had on her schedule, if she can make you happy she will be more fulfilled than doing whatever she wanted to do for herself. You must understand that phrase for what it is.

Now, this can easily become abuse. Every submissive woman I have ever personally known has been through a number of abusive relationships. She gives and men take and take and it becomes abusive. Weak men with self-esteem issues are often drawn to these women, which compounds the problem. It takes enormous strength and experience to take from a woman like this (which is what she needs) without abusing her. Your job is to soak up all her love and affection and attention, help her find ways to please you, while supporting and strengthening her as a person. This takes wisdom, experience, and, I believe, some age. I cannot imagine a 20 year old guy being a successful “dom” in any real sense of the word.

When you find her, she will likely have things in her past she is not proud of, and you may not be either. That doesn’t matter. You must accept her exactly as she is, with all of her flaws, imperfections and mistakes and you must never hold them against her. If you are worthy of the task, she will be transformed by her relationship with you… practically an alchemical transformation… lead into gold was only a metaphor for transformation you know? It was always about transforming the common and the broken into the sublime. If you can’t accept her, you can’t have her.

She needs to understand and to come to trust that you are not like the people who have hurt her in her past. She has developed complex coping and self-protective mechanisms. If you would possess her, you must strip them away and this takes time, love and persistence. If you do not do that, then your relationship will be a sham because you don’t have her, you have the face she has prepared to protect herself from the outside world.

She will naturally subjugate her desires to yours. In my opinion, you have a sacred responsibility to build her up and to strengthen her as a person. Again, you better have the wisdom and experience to do this… if not, find your way together, but be honest with her that you cannot give her what she needs.

A continuation of the above point: not every submissive is a masochist… often they are, but not always. New and wanna-be Doms need to be told this because if she sees you want to beat her even if she doesn’t want it, she won’t say no. In my opinion, if you find a woman you really care about, you need to do a lot of work understanding what makes her tick, and that does take work. My girl, for instance, literally could not answer the question “what do you want?” when we started talking. Could not answer it. You do not realize how difficult that question can be for a natural submissive, but you need to teach her how to think about it and answer it sometimes.

Above all… above all other things… be honest with her. In a relationship like this, trust is the one thing that cannot be repaired. If you damage it, you’re done. You also need to be aware that most of these women (in my experience) have an uncanny sixth sense. They are actually or very nearly psychic and will read all of your communications on every level. Don’t lie to them. It’s not worth it and once they catch you in a single lie, you now go into the same pile of “men who hurt her” and you will never truly be trusted again.

There is no depression or sorrow that can compare to what happens when you hurt or disappoint one of these women. Make sure you understand the responsibility you are assuming when you begin a relationship. On the other hand, they are capable of loving on a level that you probably cannot even begin to comprehend.

Again let me say this clearly: you have tremendous, profound and sacred responsibility for and to this woman. Don’t fuck around with this lightly.

This post is not about sex. Done properly, neither is your relationship with her.

One last point… if you are ever fortunate enough to meet a natural submissive who is at a point in her life where she can give herself to you, and if you have within yourself what it takes to master her… well… there is no force in the universe like what you are about to experience. Be forewarned because you cannot possibly be prepared.

Great truth.

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Thu, 14 Feb 2013 07:59:37 -0500

beautflstranger: In accepting a collar, a submissive pledges to...

Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:25:41 -0500

beautflstranger:

In accepting a collar, a submissive pledges to give her entire heart, mind, body and soul to another, to surrender completely to Him. In offering a collar a Master agrees to cherish, protect, nurture and care for the submissive in all ways, to appreciate and never abuse the gift He has been given.

~ unknown

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